Understanding Men

This is for a friend of mine that I personally think has issues when comes to men. Maybe after reading this, it will help shed some light in her love life and find what she's looking for. Atleast, to provide clues and how to take affirmative action. I hope so.

Signs of A Commitment Ready Guy

His friends are married.
If you are interested in a guy, check out his friends. If his friends are already married, he's more likely to get married. If all of his friends are still single and in the 'party with the boys' phase, that's a bad sign.

He's financially secure
Men who own a home and has his owns wheels are more marriage ready. A man who is generally financially stable, feels marriage is a practical next step for him.

He pursues you
The guy who is commitment ready is going to initiate doing things with you. He acts fast and seldom hesitate. If you're emailing him and he takes days to email you back, if you have to text him to find out where he is, if you are always calling him, you're chasing a man who's probably not marriage material. In other words, he is just fooling around and looking for ways to get under your skirts.

When you're sick, He is there with you
Taking care of you when you're sick shows that this guy isn't just in it for the fun and sex. If he wants to be with you in bad times, it's a sign he's in it for the long haul.

He gets to know your friends and family
A guy who is thinking long-term wants to truly get to know you. Seeing you interact with your family and friends helps him learn where you come from and more about who you are. The flip side of it is that he will also want you to get to know him! He'll want to see if you fit in with his family and friends. A guy who keeps you separate from the important people in his life is just playing around.

He says, "we" instead of "me"
When he switches from "me" to "we", that's a sign he's committing to you at a deeper level. If your guy is all, "I", "me", and "my" instead of "we" and "us" in conversations after you've been dating a while, his mindset is still in single guy mode. Relationship is about togetherness. If this does not meterialize than you may have to think twice and reevaluate your relationship.

He's not afraid of compromise
A commitment ready guy is going to ask your opinion, consult you about decisions he needs to make, and has the ability to meet you half-way. A bull-headed guy who needs everything his way or it's the highway, isn't ready for compromise and for sure isn't ready for marriage.

He doesn't need excuses
Commitment phobic guys always have an excuse about why they can't be with you on Saturday night, why they didn't call, and why they aren't ready for a relationship right now. A commitment-ready guy doesn't need excuses, he just needs you.

He likes being in a long-term relationship
Some men like being in a monogamous relationship and some don't. The sooner you realize and accept this the better. If he complains all the time about needing space, treats you like a giant burden instead of a gift, and keeps talking about taking things slow, he's telling you he's not ready for a commitment. On the other hand, if he's done with the party scene, enjoys your 'couple time' together, and has a strong sense of family, you've found a commitment ready guy.

Above are some clues that can help her evaluate the 'Man' that she is or going to date. It's simple and as a man, i have to admit that above said is true. If you want to settle down and raise a family, find a man with above qualities and soon before you know it, you're hitch!